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Songs Almost Emotionally Poisonous Love Relationships

Know someone involved in a toxic dear human relationship? Is it you lot? Customize a playlist of popular, rock, country, and R&B tunes that depict unhealthy, dangerous dearest.

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Seriously. Do You Actually Want a Jerry Springer Kind of Honey?

My husband is an engineer and likes to tease me that engineers simply don't have toxic relationships. That'due south considering such relationships are

1. just non practical and
2. can be hazardous to both one's health and wallet.

These are also reasons why I'd take the nice guys over the bad boys any solar day. Trustworthy, reliable, predictable, and kind are sexy qualities in their own right.

A lot of people, however, are addicted to toxic, unhealthy beloved relationships. These romances are filled with betrayal, fighting, and a lack of trust. Often there's a lot of drama, frequent pause-ups and lots of great brand-upwards sex. (You know who you lot are.)

Although it tin can be exciting and edgy to exist attracted to someone who isn't good for you, it's not a stable, safe feeling. Is that truly what you desire? Every bit you lot effigy out what to exercise with that emotionally poisonous relationship, here'south a playlist of popular, stone, state, and R&B songs most toxic dear.

Top xx Songs About Toxic Love Relationships

There are lots more songs where these came from. This is just a sample.

Song	Creative person
1. Love on the Brain	Rihanna
2. Irresistable	Fall Out Male child
3. I Hate U, I Love U	Gnash (Featuring Olivia O'Brien)
four. Rock Bottom	Hailee Steinfeld (Featuring DNCE)
v. Hot N Cold	Katy Perry
6. Put My Heart Downwards	Sara Evans
7. Hurts So Practiced	John Cougar Mellencamp
8. Love Hurts	Nazareth
9. Broken Strings	James Morrison (Featuring Nelly Furtado)
x. Hotter Than Hell	Dua Lipa
eleven. Gunpowder and Pb	Miranda Lambert
12. Something in the Way You lot Move	Ellie Goulding
13. Tomorrow	Chris Immature
14. Barbarous Beloved	New Found Celebrity
xv. Going Under	Evenescence
16. Haemorrhage Beloved	Leona Lewis
17. Sucker For Pain	Lil Wayne, Wiz Khalifa, Imagine Dragons, Ty Dolla $ign & Logic (Featuring X Ambassadors)
18. I Miss the Misery	Halestorm
19. Smoke When I Drink	Kelleigh Bannen
20. Playing With Burn down	Thomas Rhett (Featuring Danielle Bradbery)

i. "Love on the Brain" by Rihanna

Some people say that Rihanna is channeling the late great Amy Winehouse with the angst and self-destructiveness of this song.

The narrator in this 2016 international hit is dangerously attracted to a lover who wounds her then puts her back together. Regarding her toxic love relationship, she claims, "Information technology beats me black and blueish." At the aforementioned time she likewise swears, "No matter what I exercise, I'grand no good without you."

The song seems to mirror the singer's life. In 2009, Rihanna was physically bruised and battered by her on-again/off-again swain, rapper Chris Brown, who admitted to the attack. He faced five years probation, a year of domestic violence counseling and six months of community service for his actions. The couple then shocked the world with a 2013 reconciliation. Let's hope she gets past this for expert.

2. "Irresistible" by Fall Out Male child

Someone needs some couples counseling pronto. The narrator in this 2015 rock song describes his unhealthy love affair with his girlfriend every bit both an irresistible battle and a boxing match.

Considering he is then attracted to her, he doesn't mind playing an intense game of harming and being injure past her:

I'chiliad gonna get y'all to burst just like you lot were a bubble
Frame me up on your wall just to keep me out of trouble
Like a moth getting trapped in the light by fixation.

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three. "I Hate U, I Love U" by Gnash (Featuring Olivia O'Brien)

Very conflicted feelings. That would draw the narrator in this haunting 2016 chart-topper. Our sorry narrator is in beloved with a male friend who loves her back. But wait, there's more than ... .

Afraid of opening herself up and revealing her feelings, she created altitude between them. At present her beloved has moved on to another girl who tin can limited herself. Equally the former couple misses one another, they regret what might accept been. They're biting at 1 another and yet still in love.

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4. "Rock Bottom" by Hailee Steinfeld (Featuring DNCE)

The toxic couple is addicted to fighting in this 2015 upbeat pop song. They feel both love and hate for ane some other and proceed on coming dorsum for more conflict:

You get under my skin
More than than anyone's ever been
But when we lay in bed
You concord me hard 'til I forget.

Looking for Permission to Walk Away From Toxic Love?

I'm giving you lot permission to leave. You lot're allowed to walk away from toxic relationships.

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5. "Hot Due north Cold" by Katy Perry

There's an endless cycle of intermission-ups and make-ups in this pop song from 2008 which describes a "case of a love bipolar." She knows he's no proficient for her, even so she plays his games and puts upward with his mixed signals. If this is you lot, you deserve better than someone who can't make up their listen!

6. "Put My Middle Downward" by Sara Evans

The narrator in this 2014 state vocal never imagined that her toxic human relationship would achieve this betoken, just her lover's words have cut so deep she's asking him to leave now. She describes her feelings equally "a one thousand thousand toxic tears falling like rain 'round here." Something tells me though that he'll exist dorsum.

7. "Hurts So Good" past John Cougar Mellencamp

In this Grammy Honor-winning stone song from 1982, a homo who is feeling fourth dimension sneak up on him invites his younger lover to sink her teeth right through his basic. (Ouch!) Then he begs her to make it

Hurt so proficient
Come on baby, make it hurt and then skillful
Sometimes love don't feel like it should
You make it hurt so skillful.

8. "Love Hurts" by Nazareth

This 1975 power ballad became an international hit for this Scottish hard rock ring. Having been left so broken and wounded by a former sweetheart, the song's protagonist claims that beloved is just a lie. He warns that it hurts, scars, wounds, marks, causes hurting, and burns you lot.

With an attitude similar that, this jilted lover volition always be single.

When people care for you lot like they don't care, believe them.

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ix. "Broken Strings" past James Morrison (Featuring Nelly Furtado)

The couple in this 2008 popular tune is struggling with betrayal, and information technology's tearing them autonomously. However, rather than breaking up, they linger, irreparably scarred.

The partner who has been betrayed has stayed too long. Left him cleaved and numb past the truth, he reveals that he loves his girlfriend less than before. Although he withal wants to hold her, he'due south just going through the motions now, unable to forgive. He likens their shattered human relationship to "chasing the very last train when it's besides late."

10. "Hotter Than Hell" by Dua Lipa

Talk most a lucifer made in hell. In this 2017 song, the narrator and her lover bring out each others' dark sides. This is non love; it's cruel attraction, dangerous obsession.

I'm the realest it gets
Yous probably nevertheless adore me
With my hands around your cervix.

12 Signs You May Exist In A Toxic Relationship

Are yous in a toxic relationship? The more signs you and your partner bear witness, the more you lot demand to reconsider your relationship and seek professional assistance.

efforts are i-sided and go out you feeling emotionally and physically drained	yous begin to accept behaviors that used to be unacceptable	you can't seem to do annihilation right
at that place is disrespect, screaming matches, and/or abuse	there are major power and control issues	there is a lack of trust
you experience unvalued, unheard, and/or victimized	at that place are loftier levels of anger, hostility, jealousy and/or blame	passive aggression instead of open communication
avoiding ane another and using the silent treatment	you always put your partner's need showtime, sacrificing your own needs	constant drama

11. "Gunpowder and Atomic number 82" by Miranda Lambert

This is no style to settle the score in an calumniating relationship. The lady in this 2007 country ditty has had enough of being dilapidated, so every bit her honey is being sprung from the local jail for beating her, she's planning on ambushing him with her shotgun.

Take a fourth dimension out and think. Is he actually worth going to prison house? This is the toxic, terrible stuff that some relationships are made of.

His fist is big, but my gun's bigger
He'll observe out when I pull the trigger.

12. "Something in the Manner You lot Motion" past Ellie Goulding

In this 2015 pop song, there's a adult female who keeps returning to a bad boy who grants her heartache and disappointment. She admits that he's an accomplished liar and not good enough for her, still their physical chemistry keeps her coming dorsum for more toxic dear.

While she's wasting him with this loser, her real Romeo—someone who is honest, kind, and LIKES CATS!—is nonetheless out there. Ditch the dude who is wasting your youth, dear.

Nothing toxic comes from 18-carat dearest.

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xiii. "Tomorrow" by Chris Young

The couple in this 2011 country song is like fire and gasoline, and the narrator knows it. However, the narrator is thinking with his heart (or his willy) when he ignores all reason and holds her tight, rocks her strong ane more fourth dimension. He already has tomorrow'southward goodbye scene planned out.

Wait. They've been through this design before, haven't they?

xiv. "Vicious Love" by New Establish Glory

Someone please tap the guy in this 2014 rock vocal on the shoulder and gear up him straight. Love done right should never be vicious.

He treasures the fact that he doesn't surrender on his sweetheart, with whom honey doesn't come easily. Instead maybe the ii of them should go their separate ways. Someone kick some sense into him; maybe it'll go through that fashion, huh?

Nosotros've got a savage dearest
We mix our tears with blood
No clock will cease for u.s.
Information technology ticks by.
We fight as hard as nosotros love
Nosotros've got a barbarous love

15. "Going Under" by Evanescence

Label this ane a super toxic relationship.

The protagonist in this 2003 rock song is fed up with "screaming, deceiving and bleeding" for her lover. Having reached stone bottom, she feels like she's going under, and she's trying to escape their dangerous thing.

She can no longer discern his lies and the truth. This is what happens when a toxic human relationship goes on too long—it eats away at your sense of self.

16. "Bleeding Love" by Leona Lewis

From the moment she offset saw her trouble-causing lover, it was instant attraction for the woman in this 2007 pop song. Friends think she's crazy, and that should be a large clue. Merely it isn't. She says the and so-called honey she has for her man cripples her, leaves scars, and makes her bleed love. But she keeps coming back for another helping.

Girl, you are better than this. Pull yourself upwards by your high heeled boots and keep walking.

17. "Sucker for Hurting" past Lil Wayne, Wiz Khalifa, Imagine Dragons, Ty Dolla $ign & Logic (Featuring Ten Ambassadors)

The relationship depicted in this 2016 hip hop/rock striking is not healthy at all. At that place's

• begging
• a desire to chain ane partner upwards and necktie them down and
• a description of the couple'southward honey as burn, torture, and going to state of war.

Either this lover boy is messed upwardly on drugs or he's non right in the head. Girlfriend, don't stay around to find out. Run abroad as fast every bit you lot can earlier something really bad goes down. Yous know what to do.

18. "I Miss the Misery" past Halestorm

The protagonist in this 2012 rock song is one messed upwardly woman. Her lover has finally changed his toxic ways but instead of being happy she misses the misery. Become figure!

She misses the lies, fights, screaming matches, error-finding, the hate, the injure, and all of the other things that made their human relationship poisonous. Some people are never happy. This should exist a bargain billow.

19. "Fume When I Drinkable" past Kelleigh Bannen

"All that holdback gone in a blink." The woman in this 2014 country song knew that her ex would be in this bar tonight.

She's spent a long time getting over him, still hither she is, acknowledging that she's too lit up to try to turn him down. She knows she'll regret it in the morn, but here comes her ex, right on cue. Bad habits die hard.

20. "Playing With Fire" by Thomas Rhett (Featuring Danielle Bradbery)

In this 2015 land song, the lovesick narrator knows the right thing to practise:

• don't drive by his ex-girlfriend's house
• delete her number from his phone
• stay abroad from her side of town.

She knows the right thing to practice every bit well. Commit to no more on-again/off-again. Don't go hang out where he does. Merely oh, no. Both of them take poor impulse control. They play a dangerous game with their hearts and know it'due south not even close to over yet.

Be Loyal to Yous

"Staying in a hopeless situation doesn't brand y'all 'loyal.' It just makes y'all miserable. Be loyal to your own peace of mind." - The Weeknd, Canadian singer

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Even More Songs Near Toxic Dear Relationships

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Song	Artist	Twelvemonth Released
21. On My Mode	Lea Michele	2014
22. Cuts Both Means	Gloria Estefan	1989
23. Advice	Kehlani	2016
24. Toxic	Britney Spears	2003
25. Better Honey	Foxes	2016
26. Leave Me Lonely	Ariana Grande	2016
27. Poison	Rita Ora	2008
28. Bad Boys	Alexandra Shush (Featuring FloRida)	2009
29. Kill For Y'all	Skylar Greyness (Featuring Eminem)	2016
30. Earnest	Sia	2014
31. Run Right Back	The Black Keys	2011
32. It Won't Let Go	Gloriana	2015
33. Queen of Peace & Long and Lost	Florence + the Machine	2015
34. It Kills Me	Melanie Fiona	2009
35. Aroused All the Fourth dimension	Tim McGraw	2001
36. #1 Crush	Garbage	1995
37. I Approximate I'll Miss the Man	The Supremes	1972
38. Letting Go	Mayday Parade	2015
39. It's Non Me It'southward Yous	Skillet	2009
40. Kiss with a Fist	Florence + The Machine	2009
41. You Give Love a Bad Proper noun	Bon Jovi	1986
42. Everything She Wants	Wham!	1984
43. You're No Good	Linda Ronstadt	1974
44. You're So Vain	Carly Simon	1972
45. Information technology Was Organized religion	Pool of Mudd	2007
46. Breakup	Seether	2007
47. Skinny Love	Birdy	2011
48. Mercy	Shawn Mendes	2016
49. I Was a Fool	Tegan and Sara	2012
l. Unfaithful	Rihanna	2006
51. Jar of Hearts	Christina Perri	2010
52. Dearest Stinks	J. Geils Band	1980
53. Strawberry Wine	Pat Benatar	1997
54. It Ain't Me	Kygo and Seleva Gomez	2017
55. You lot Don't Honey Me Anymore	Weird Al Yankovic	1992
56. Nicotine	Panic! At the Disco	2013
57. Love the Fashion You lot Lie	Eminem (Featuring Rihanna)	2010
58. Addicted	Dan Seals	1988
59. Free energy	Keri Hilson	2009
60. Familiar Taste of Poisonous substance	Halestorm	2009
61. Cute Trauma	Pink	2017
62. Beloved Me or Leave Me Lone	Dustin Lynch	2017
63. Last Trip the light fantastic	Dua Lipa	2017
64. Wouldn't Be Love	Ritual	2017
65. Ultraviolence	Lana Del Rey	2014
66. Blood Under My Chugalug	The Drums	2017
67. Love Bites	Def Leppard	1987
68. Pain	Three Days Grace	2006
69. I Detest Everything Virtually You	Iii Days Grace	2003
seventy. Decode	Paramore	2008
71. Kiss Information technology Better	Rihanna	2016
72. Bad Medicine	Bon Jovi	1988
73. Helpless When She Smiles	Backstreet Boys	2008
74. You Ruin Me	The Veronicas	2014
75. Unapologetic B*tch	Madonna	2014
76. Numb	Linkin Park	2003
77. Bad Romance	Lady Gaga	2009
78. I Hate Myself for Loving You	Joan Jett and the Blackhearts	1988
79. Never the Same	Camilla Cabello	2018
80. New Rules	Dua Lipa	2017
81. Beating Me Upwards	Rachel Platten	2016
82. Don't Bite the Paw That Feeds	Ratt	1988
83. Easily Off My Eye	MKTO	2016
84. Hands to Myself	Selena Gomez	2016
85. Bad at Dearest	Halsey	2017
86. Trainwreck	Banks	2016
87. Runaway Train	Drive-by Truckers	2015
88. Toxic Love	Tim Curry	1992
89. Ex-Factor	Lauryn Hill	1998
90. Mad Honey	JoJo	2016
91. Back to Black	Amy Winehouse	2006
92. Dorsum to You	Louis Tomlinson (Featuring Bebe Rexha and Digital Farm Animals)	2017
93. Stitches	Shawn Mendes	2015
94. Connect	Drake	2013
95. Only Desire You	Skylar Stecker	2017
96. Tainted Dear	Soft Prison cell	1981
97. Bad Things	Camilla Cabello & Machine Gun Kelly	2016
98. Harder to Breathe	Maroon five	2002
99. This Love	Maroon v	2004
100. My Next Cleaved Middle	Brooks & Dunn	1991
101. Attention	Charlie Puth	2017
102. Broken	lovelytheband	2017
103. Jesse	Carly Simon	1980
104. Youngblood	5 Seconds of Summertime	2018
105. Honey Is a Battlefield	Pat Benatar	1983
106. Take Me to Church	Hozier	2013
107. Rex	Years & Years	2015
108. Hate Me	Nico Collins	2018
109. Miracle	Hurt	2013
110. Daughter	Destiny's Child	2005
111. Praying	Kesha	2017
112. Criticize	Adelitas Mode	2011
113. Should I Stay or Should I Go	The Clash	1982
114. What Take I Done to Deserve This	Pet Shop Boys (Featuring Dusty Springfield)	1987
115. Dearest Me Dead	Ludo	2008
116. Walls Could Talk	Halsey	2017
117. I'thousand So Pitiful	Nico Collins	2019
118. A Broken Wing	Martina McBride	1997
119. Life in the Fast Lane	Eagles	1976
120. Use Me	Nib Withers	1972
121, Wrecking Ball	Miley Cyrus	2013
122. Slamming Doors	Ben Haenow	2015
123. Deja Vu	Katy Perry	2017
124. Your Love (Déjà Vu)	Glass Animals	2020
125. One Mississippi	Kane Brown	2021
126. Texas Tornado	Tracy Lawrence	1995
127. Car Crash	3 Days Grace	2015
128. Be Kind	Marshmello & Halsey	2020
129. Coffin	Jessie Reyez (Featuring Eminem)	2020

Questions & Answers

Question: How would I know if my partner is falling out of honey?

Respond: All committed relationships have peaks and valleys, but here are some signs that your partner is falling out of love with yous or has already fallen done so. While any one of us may exhibit some of these signs from time to time in our dearest relationship because of life stressors, conflict, sick wellness, or other issues, consider the overall pattern, severity, and elapsing of the beliefs beneath.

1) Your partner often chooses to spend less fourth dimension with y'all, opting instead to piece of work, hang out with friends, or pursue some other priority instead. Fifty-fifty when they are with you, they're "checked out" -- on their phone or other device or watching television, for instance.

ii) They've withdrawn emotionally. They don't share secrets, hopes, dreams, feelings, and fears like they used to. They don't solicit this type of data from y'all either and shut you down when you try to hash out.

3) Your partner treats yous more like a roommate, sibling, or buddy than a lover. They avoid all signs of romantic intimacy. The hand property, kissing, cuddling, hugs, and sexual activity have dwindled or stopped. (Sometimes, sexual activity is the only thing they want from y'all—sex without the emotional intimacy.)

iv) They don't talk much about the time to come or they change the subject when you bring it upwardly. They avoid situations with other couples. They don't talk to others about you as a couple (merely themselves equally an private).

v) Your values and interests are different and there's no longer an attempt to hash out, share, or meet in the middle.

half-dozen) Your partner no longer invests much fourth dimension or energy into their appearance or suddenly begins to pay way more than attending to it.

seven) They become hands frustrated with you. They may express disrespect, antipathy, and disappointment, sometimes disguised as sarcastic "jokes."

8) Your partner has developed a wandering eye. They no longer bother to hide the fact that they're sneaking a glance elsewhere.

Chances are, if you're asking yourself the question, "Is my partner falling out of beloved with me?" so you're probably seeing some of these signs. Get ahead and have the difficult discussion with your partner nigh the behaviors you're noticing and where to go from here as a couple. I promise these have helped.

Question: I'thousand dating a guy who does not show affection. Sometimes, our relationship feels one-sided. When I broke up with him he begged for us to endeavour once more. I've tried communication, and it does not seem to help. I but desire a trivial affection every now and so. The only fourth dimension he touches me is in a sexual manner, but I just want him to hold me for one time without information technology beingness about sex. What do I need to do?

Answer: This is pretty piece of cake. Unless you are madly in love with him and willing to endeavour anything to keep this relationship together – and I'one thousand not hearing that that is where your heart is at – I recommend putting YOU first and breaking up with him for good. Cease having sex with him and intermission upwards with him NOW. You don't owe him a lengthy reason or excuse. Only tell him you aren't feeling it anymore, and the one-sidedness and lack of affection were bargain breakers. Make certain he knows there volition exist no relationship practice-over this fourth dimension.

You've tried communication. You've tried second chances. Those didn't work. Don't try to gear up him or force him to practise something he doesn't want to exercise. His lack of affection is Non your problem to solve, so terminate trying to make information technology yours. (He alone owns this issue. Maybe he tin can seek private counseling if he has bug expressing himself, but that'due south for him to explore.)

Girl, go observe someone who volition meet your needs. There are indeed men out there who are kind, compassionate, and physically affectionate (non simply when they want a little nooky). Stand for what you deserve in both relationships and in life. I'm rooting for you!

Question: What if after just a few days I am taking a interruption from a human relationship? Does this count as "toxic beloved"?

Answer: Beware of any relationship that is and then fragmented or tumultuous that you demand to take a interruption from information technology after only a few days. Ideally, relationships should build you up and make you a stronger person, thus creating a foundation of trust and companionship. If this isn't the instance, y'all may be physically attracted to someone, but perhaps it'southward non wise to have an ongoing relationship with them. Stop while y'all're ahead. Wish one another well and don't expect back.

Question: I made a fault years agone in my marriage, and my married man nonetheless doesn't trust me, even though I take proven my love and faithfulness.

He besides uses it equally a trump card in every argument. What should I do?

Reply: Your married man chose to stay with you, notwithstanding if he's honest with himself, he'd acknowledge that he hasn't truly forgiven you. He likely has a lot of unresolved anger and trust issues about your transgression, and he continues to strategically bring the mistake dorsum up at emotionally raw moments to hurt y'all the nearly.

It's an unfair ability play, nevertheless. On some level, he probably feels he'll always win an argument as long equally he uses your mistake as leverage. You violated his trust and hurt him securely, but none of us are perfect. Don't continue to beat yourself upwardly. Nosotros all fall brusque of perfect.

Equally much as the lingering effect hurts you, notwithstanding, it is holding him back, even more, non to mention your marriage. You lot violated your husband's trust, so information technology'south incumbent upon you to take the lead in repairing what you broke. He is wounded, and you may never accept realized merely how deeply because men don't e'er talk virtually their feelings. Continuing to let this tear him up inside volition only make him bitter.

Every bit a couple, it may be useful to explore the post-obit concerns:

• What were the underlying reasons that led to your infidelity?

• What, if anything, is dissimilar in your union now?

• How did your parents' marriages color your spousal relationship?

• Can your husband forgive yous? What will this take?

• Do yous still vest together? If so, how can you work at improving the trust in your spousal relationship?

The best way to do this is by working with a marriage advisor (clinical or counseling psychologist or licensed clinical social worker). Talk with your husband while he is calm rather than in the heat of an statement. Present it as an opportunity to abound closer and move forward, finally putting your infidelity behind you lot both. If he doesn't get to therapy, you can go alone. It will at least give you lot a sense of clarity regarding what salubrious beliefs in a marriage should exist like. Yous might exist pleasantly surprised that at some point your married man may determine to join yous.

Question: Should I text my crush back if he doesn't text me? Information technology's been almost ii months since our last chat.

Answer: If you lot are the one in this human relationship who must consistently reach out and choice up the slack, then he's probably not that interested. If this is the first time he's done it, maybe there's something going on in his life. Even so, I suspect you lot would accept contacted him by now if that was the case. I suspect he has a design of not texting you lot back in a timely manner and this is the longest it's gone on, 2 months.

If that's the example, I'd drop him and non look back. Yous tin casually effort to initiate contact again with him if you feel like you must and just ask him how it's going. Withal, you should commencement ask yourself what you'd desire from someone who is too busy, too cocky-involved, and/or doesn't respect you enough to pick up a prison cell phone and text. How much time does that really have? Stand up for yourself. You are worth it.

Question: What if my significant other wrongly believes that I am keeping information from her, but she has not shared much data about herself?

Respond: This appears to be a rather new relationship in which there is not merely low trust just likewise an imbalance of emotional and advisory self-sharing. Perhaps she has quite a bit of emotional baggage that she is conveying from past relationships or maybe from growing upwardly (e.grand., parents who went through an ugly divorce). People carry their pain with them.

Possibly she's emotionally guarded for good reasons that take nil to practise with y'all personally. Is information technology worth trying to work through to see if that's true? If and then, rather than jumping to anger, get-go endeavour a more open up, playful approach, such equally twenty-questions or an "ask me anything." Mutually establish the basis rules upward front earlier anyone asks whatsoever questions.

For example, here are some sample footing rules:

1) On individual slips of paper, each partner writes downward ten questions that they want to know about the other partner. It has to be a question that applies to both partners, non just one partner. The question tin be philosophical, about past experiences or relationships, a silly question, practical question, a "what would you practice scenario" or a question about life priorities, dreams, or values. If in that location are whatever off-limit subjects, agree on them in advance. Fold the slips of paper and put them in a jar.

ii) Over pizza or in a relaxed setting, the first partner draws a random question from the jar and answers it. The 2d partner simply listens, and they can ask follow-up questions for further description. Then the 2nd partner answers the same question, reversing roles.

3) If either partner comes to a question that they truly don't desire to answer, they shouldn't be forced to practice so. If possible, they might offering why they don't experience comfortable answering. At least at present you'll know what the sensitive subjects are.

You might start out with lighter, very emotionally not-threatening topics for the starting time game or two of 20 questions (silly questions, favorite song, what would you do scenarios) then gradually sprinkle in some more than emotionally revealing questions.

Question: Is at that place such affair equally a one-sided toxic relationship? For example, I used to be in love with someone who constantly played with my feelings. He was besides suicidal and very emotionally unstable. Everything he did to himself hurt me every bit well.

Answer: People involved in dear relationships tin play a variety of roles, some of them quite toxic (e.grand., broken person/rescuer, victim/aggressor). Just because your partner's behaviors were exceedingly unhealthy doesn't mean your behaviors were healthy. Information technology'south a good matter you're out of the relationship if he played with your emotions and didn't give yous what you needed. I hope you're in a healthier human relationship now.

Question: What if you lot are the last person to know about someone's secrets?

Answer: Bold that you hateful that their secrets died with them except for what they told you, so you have a decision to make. On ane hand, yous must consider whether you continue to honor the request for secrecy. They made it while they were living, perhaps in gild to avoid conflict, embarrassment, social clumsiness, shame or social stigma, etc. You accept to consider the nature of their hugger-mugger and why they didn't want others to know at the time. Volition anything positive potentially come of divulging that undercover now? You also accept to consider whether those reasons are nonetheless valid, now that your loved one is no longer here.

The other alternative is that in the aftermath of their death their relatives and friends are searching for whatsoever answers that may potentially requite more texture to the deceased'southward life and their passing. This is particularly the case if they died by their own hand or by another's.

If divulging their secret has the potential to hurt the living and complicate others' grief -- information about extramarital diplomacy, previously undisclosed sexual identity, disease status, paternity, criminal or calumniating behavior -- consider discussing first with a therapist to work out the following:

1) whether y'all should share the information

two) how much information you should share

3) with whom

four) in what manner/format (letter/phone/meeting) and what setting

five) the timing

six) what your ain motivations are for wanting to practise so.

I'1000 sorry for your loss. Some secrets are meant to remain secrets whereas others are not, especially later on death.

Question: Is it unhealthy if I desire my significant other to be more decision-making over me or if I want to be told what to do?

Answer: Being overly dependent upon a lover comes across as needy, clingy, and passive. Is that what y'all want? The objective of growing up is learning to intendance for yourself. You cannot forfeit that and however take a healthy relationship.

In that location are times when it's stress-reducing to concord to offload certain responsibilities onto your partner, merely you seem to want your significant other to be more controlling over you. That concerns me because I'm sensing that what you want is more than permanent and all-encompassing. Every bit a result, yous may be setting yourself upward to exist:

1) dependent on your partner

2) powerless in the relationship, and

3) potentially subject to emotional or physical mistreatment if your partner is so inclined.

Being dependent on another person can be a very glace gradient. Perchance now it's merely small decisions you abdicate. Even so, somewhen, it'southward possible that if you routinely hand over determination making, you may turn around and detect yourself utterly unable to make your own decisions AT ALL. Wanting someone to exist more controlling over you amounts to handing over your personal ability. Don't do that, friend.

When some of the following signs be, people frequently enter into unhealthy territory:

- difficulty making decisions without reassurance from others

- fugitive personal accountability

- extreme passivity

- fugitive being solitary

- bug expressing disagreement with others

- disability to see the ordinary demands of life

- preoccupation with existence abandoned

- feeling devastated or helpless when a relationship ends

- easily hurt by criticism or disapproval

- willingness to tolerate mistreatment or abuse from others.

If you lot recognize yourself in this listing of behaviors, consider talking to a mental health advisor or psychologist about your desire to be controlled. They can assist you develop the skills to be more independent and explore the reasons why you feel like this in the first place. I wish you lot luck as you nautical chart your own form in life.

Question: What if your significant other doesn't appreciate the footling things you practise, like holding the door open, or walking with her to work?

Answer: Although many people might suggest that yous simply stop doing the niggling things that she doesn't give thanks you for, I would recommend a more cogitating approach.

It'southward unfortunate that your partner doesn't recognize your kindness. Before yous act on your frustration, you might starting time accept a step back and ask yourself WHY y'all practice these niggling things for her. Is it because y'all care for her and genuinely enjoy doing small-scale things that yous believe make her happy or make her life easier? If so, and so being thanked shouldn't thing quite as much. People who love one another often practice things with no expectation of annihilation in return (not even a thank you sometimes).

Alternatively, do you perform these small favors because you lot're seeking her recognition, acknowledgment, and approval? It's not a bad affair if validation is a motivation for yous. Y'all only need to communicate to her how important acknowledgment is for y'all. If recognition is a primal driver for you, then you need to have an honest, open up chat with her. Ask whether she even wants yous to exercise these things. (It'due south quite possible she doesn't. That would be a plot twist, wouldn't it?)

Share with her why you lot do them and explain that yous're the type of person who needs positive reassurances that what you're doing is valued and appreciated. She may non realize she's every bit thankless equally you perceive her to exist. Add that recognition of your efforts is the best way to ensure that you will go on to do these picayune things.

Based on your discussion, try to come to an agreement on what behaviors each of you will continue/stop/start.

Question: What if my girlfriend hits on other guys, but always comes dorsum to me?

Answer: You deserve someone who's every bit "all in" as yous are. Therefore, you need to have an honest, open conversation in which you tell her calmly that you know she makes sexual advances to other guys. Describe how information technology makes you feel -- embarrassed, angry, hurt, betrayed, sad, etc. Maybe she can shed calorie-free on why she does it. For example: maybe she's not ready for a committed relationship, she feels insecure well-nigh herself, y'all feel more than strongly about her than she does nigh you, she doesn't perceive the gestures she's making to be sexual advances at all, etc. This volition be a difficult but worthy conversation if y'all don't allow emotions to hijack information technology.

For your own dignity, y'all have to determine if y'all're okay with her behavior. (Apparently you lot're non. You lot've written me!) Why make this determination? Considering currently, you're giving her your CONSENT to treat you lot this way every time you take her back. If you're not okay with it, explicitly tell her so. Redraw your boundaries, meaning plant what a relationship dealbreaker is. So STICK to those boundaries. She may realize that she lost a loyal and loving partner a little too late.

I wish you all the best in continuing upwardly for yourself.

© 2017 FlourishAnyway

FlourishAnyway (author) from U.s. on May 27, 2020:

Evelyn - Thank yous for this toxic song suggestion! I added it to both this and the playlist on domestic violence.

Evelyn on May 21, 2020:

'I'm So Pitiful' - Nico Collins.

This is also nigh physical abuse.

All she does is hurt him, but he holds onto his identity and empathizes with her feelings. He feels bad for her and her life, simply he is adamant that he will "brand it out live".

FlourishAnyway (author) from Usa on April 25, 2020:

Peggy - I think there'due south probably a large bias in what type of people are searching for these songs and that probably influenced the results. Not all of united states of america are in healthy relationships. I'll take steady and predictable.

Peggy Woods from Houston, Texas on April 25, 2020:

Maybe it is merely because of the title of this playlist that your polls were filled out in the fashion that they were. Because I fit a minority category in both polls. Boring in #1, which I will happily accept over the other options, and companions, friends, etc. in the 2nd. Information technology suits me perfectly. (Smile)

FlourishAnyway (author) from U.s.a. on March 12, 2020:

Wren - (I love your proper noun.) Thanks for the vocal suggestion. Stay away from toxic beloved relationships and be well!

Wren on March 11, 2020:

I may have a few songs that kind of refer to domestic abusive relationships.

Walls Could Talk - Halsey

Kind of talks almost a toxic human relationship, and how if the walls could talk, they would say how 'shit is crazy'

Nevermore - Jeff Williams Ft. Casey Lee Williams

This song is from ane of my favorite shows, RWBY ('ruby'), and it's about a girl and her best friend facing the daughter'south past calumniating partner. The song talks about how the daughter and her best friend won't run anymore, and they volition protect each other to fight him. I propose going onto Genius Lyrics and looking up the lyrics to really empathise the story backside the vocal.

FlourishAnyway (author) from U.s. on March 01, 2020:

Blay - Perfect! Thanks for the recommendation which I have added!

Blay on February 29, 2020:

I'thou thinking Honey Me Dead by Ludo is a pretty good toxic love song. The narrator is tearing his lover down, just is even so obsessed with her and is begging for her to injure him.

FlourishAnyway (author) from The states on December 06, 2019:

itsjustme1965 - Thank you for that song suggestion which I added.

itsjustme1965 on December 05, 2019:

just heard a new song for your toxic love playlist.

"Criticize" past Adelitas Way

FlourishAnyway (writer) from USA on Oct 17, 2019:

JCN - This is the second proposition on this vocal, and so I added information technology. Thanks for your annotate.

JCN on October 16, 2019:

A song I love about toxic love is:

PRAYING

KESHA

2017

FlourishAnyway (author) from United states on September 30, 2019:

Jimmy - Thanks for the proffer.

jimmy on September 29, 2019:

ane song suggestion for you on this list is praying by kesha (2017)

FlourishAnyway (writer) from Usa on August 25, 2019:

Jimmy - Thank you for the proffer. I've added it, both here and on the playlist of pop and rock songs near adulterous and lying. Take a great twenty-four hours!

jimmy on Baronial 24, 2019:

daughter-destiny'southward kid

FlourishAnyway (author) from The states on May 06, 2019:

Tamara - I appreciate your kind compliments. People often have a sense that their human relationship behaviors aren't healthy. Doing something about it, all the same, is another thing entirely. Accept a lovely week!

BBYCGN from Uninhabited Regions on May 06, 2019:

Wow, splendid post along with a great listing of songs! I enjoyed answering your questions, every bit well, on the polls. I was surprised that many checked the box as being in a toxic relationship. Your Q&A function was so informative, likewise. Thanks, Flourish ❤️

FlourishAnyway (author) from U.s.a. on August 25, 2018:

Rodd - Thanks for the song suggestion. It's at #100. The poor guy in that song has poor gustation in women, poor relationship skills, or both!

Rodd on August 25, 2018:

How near brooks & dunn - my next cleaved middle.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on August 23, 2018:

Sara,

I am concerned that yous are in an abusive human relationship. Many people (primarily females) may not realize that they are in a relationship that shows signs and symptoms of domestic violence. Although I accept non experienced domestic corruption at the hands of a partner, several people close to me have. I use some of my playlists to connect people to helpful resources. On a related playlist, "Songs About Domestic Violence and Child Abuse," https://spinditty.com/playlists/Songs-About-Domest... or curt link http://hub.me/altXL I provide some important facts about domestic violence as well as a helpful link to a credible mental wellness source regarding traits and warning signs of abusers.

You should besides save this important number:

National Domestic Violence Hotline one-800-799-Safe (7233) - Highly trained advocates are available 24/7 to talk confidentially with anyone experiencing domestic violence, seeking data or resources, or questioning unhealthy aspects of their relationship.

In addition, I have written an commodity "Divorce and Intimate Partner Violence: How to Know If Y'all're at Take chances of Being Stalked, Harmed, or Killed," https://pairedlife.com/problems/Divorce-and-Intima... or brusk link http://hub.me/aknTR. This describes domestic violence in the life of someone very close to me. It also provides extensive information on prevalence, types of intimate partner violence, multiple resources in addition to the number I gave you lot to a higher place, risk factors for condign a victim or perpetrator, and communication. I've included the titles of the manufactures in case the links are somehow rendered invalid. Just Google them if they appear broken in this comments section.

Delight, for the sake of both yourself and your child, brainwash yourself and make the call for 24/seven support. I'll be thinking of you. All the all-time, FlourishAnyway

Sara on Baronial 23, 2018:

Im xx married and i have a 2 year onetime with my husband. he extremely emotionally abusive only he dosent know he is when i attempt to explain to him he just shuts me down wevebeen together for v years at present and it wasnt always like this but as nosotros get olderand our jobs get more stressful and our lives evolve information technology gets worse i experience like im styck in a horror movie or a nightmare. I have dreams about leaving him and i cry at night. Im ever maxim sorry for things that i know i shouldnt be deplorable almost or he e'er trys to put the arraign on me in a fight and trys to play victim similar he hasnt washed anything incorrect my heart hurts and i merely need help communication and back up

Nile on July 15, 2018:

Connect by Drake

FlourishAnyway (writer) from United states on July 09, 2018:

Betimes - Thanks for your comment. It'due south #57 on the list. Have a great week!

Anon on July 08, 2018:

Love the style y'all lie by Eminem?

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on Apr 28, 2018:

Bob - Why would you want to date someone who isn't kind? Find another girlfriend or just become it alone for awhile and concentrate on you. It'south better to be alone and happy than in a relationship and miserable. Peradventure she's miserable, too. Who knows? Practiced luck.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on Jan 29, 2018:

Emma - How could I leave that off? Calculation information technology now. This isn't a ranked listing, but know if it were, it'd exist right upwardly there. Thanks for the comment and have a peachy week!

Emma on January 29, 2018:

I might've missed information technology but I feel like "bad romance" by lady gaga should've come in at #1

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on Jan 23, 2018:

GennyXO - Cheers for these suggestions which I have added. "Yous Ruin Me" is one of my large favorites! Be kind to yourself and have a great day.

GennyXO on January 23, 2018:

You Ruin Me past the Veronicas, Unapologetic *crawling by Madonna, and Numb by Linkin Park...all are so skillful!

GennyXO on January 16, 2018:

You ruin me by the Veronicas and unapologetic bitch by Madonna and numb by Linkin Park

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on December fourteen, 2017:

Desiree - Thanks. Sometimes I include embrace songs instead of the original. I appreciate your comment.

Desiree on December xiii, 2017:

Skinny Love is originally past Bon Iver.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on December 03, 2017:

Lilia - Wait a lilliputian closer. It's #57. I appreciate your comment!

Lilia on December 03, 2017:

How can you not accept Rihanna's Love The Way You Lie (both parts!) on your list? That vocal is the ULTIMATE vocal nearly toxic relationships!

FlourishAnyway (author) from U.s.a. on Nov 02, 2017:

Ilo - Thank you lot for the proffer. I take added the song to both this playlist and the following, which also contains help data for people who are in abusive relationships: https://hubpages.com/playlists/Songs-About-Domesti... I capeesh your suggestion. Have a proficient day.

Ilo on November 02, 2017:

Ultraviolence by Lana del Rey is an amazing that depicts well the feeling of someone who is in an abusive human relationship and can't end this bicycle.

Some people say that this vocal romanticize those toxics relationships but I retrieve that is another (and very sorry) view about this issue.

(sad for whatsoever fault, English isn't my most fluent language)

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on Oct 28, 2017:

Daysha - Thank you for the proffer. I have added it at #64. Accept a great day!

Daysha on Oct 28, 2017:

Wouldn't be love-Ritual

FlourishAnyway (author) from United states on October 01, 2017:

Daking - Beautiful vocal! Thanks for the add-on! It's #62 now! Accept a expert Sunday!

Daking on September 30, 2017:

Honey me or leave me alone-Dustin Lnch

FlourishAnyway (author) from Us on September 30, 2017:

Kari - You're awesome! I added this one too! Have a great weekend and healthy relationships!

FlourishAnyway (author) from Usa on September 30, 2017:

Kari - I've added your suggestion at #threescore. Thanks a bunch!

Kari on September 29, 2017:

Beautiful TRAUMA by P!NK (new vocal!!)

Kari on September 29, 2017:

Familiar Gustatory modality of Toxicant by Halestorm

FlourishAnyway (author) from United states of america on September 25, 2017:

PERSON6543 - Cheers for the suggestion. I've added it!

PERSON6543 on September 25, 2017:

Energy -- Keri Hilson

FlourishAnyway (author) from United states of america on August 27, 2017:

Hello, Brook - Unfaithful is on the list already at #50. Thanks for commenting!

Brook on August 27, 2017:

Unfaithful- Rihanna

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on August 27, 2017:

Suhail & K2 - I honey those big hair bands! Have a slap-up week.

Suhail and my domestic dog on Baronial 26, 2017:

Sorry, FlourishAnyway, I read your this bulletin late: "Suhail - Just thought of i from that era and added information technology in your honor as #41, Bon Jovi, "Yous Give Dearest a Bad Proper name." Any others? Thanks for reading."

That was a perfect add together. Give thanks you!

Thanks!

FlourishAnyway (author) from U.s. on August 16, 2017:

Cheng Liu - Dandy improver. Both singers are really take a history of messed up relationships. The vocal has been added at #57. Cheers!

FlourishAnyway (writer) from U.s.a. on Baronial 16, 2017:

Jaylin - Thank you lot for that suggestion. It's at present #56. Take a great mean solar day. If you accept toxic people in your life, ditch them. Life's besides short for games.

Cheng Liu on August 16, 2017:

Eminem and Rihannas single Honey the Way you Lie, about their relationships, espically Rihanna and Chris Brown

jaylin on Baronial xvi, 2017:

Nicotine past panic! At the disco

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on August 06, 2017:

How-do-you-do, Toni - I went ahead and added information technology considering it'southward on topic and with Weird Al, everyone should know it's not serious. Thanks for stopping by. Have a great week.

Toni on August 05, 2017:

Probably inappropriate as information technology makes calorie-free of domestic abuse but does Weird Al Yankovic's You Don't Love Me Anymore deserve a mention?

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on July 18, 2017:

Rj - Cheers for the suggestions which I have added. I've also added "Beloved Stinks" to the following playlist: https://hubpages.com/playlists/Leave-Your-Lover-fo...

Rj on July 17, 2017:

Jar of hearts by christine perry -dearest stinks -the m giels band- strawberry wine by pat benatar-

FlourishAnyway (writer) from USA on May xiii, 2017:

Geetha - Got it at #24! Thanks for your comment. Have a smashing Mother's Solar day weekend!

Geetha on May 13, 2017:

Toxic

FlourishAnyway (author) from Us on April 07, 2017:

Mona - Makes you wonder what kind of place Hell, Michigan is, huh? And why it's chosen that.

Grand Old Lady on April 07, 2017:

This is a fantastic list. I experience old, though...I had to play near of the videos to know the songs, haha. My favorite is Ellie Goulding. Oh, and this is the first time that I learned there is a place chosen Hell, hahaha.

FlourishAnyway (writer) from Usa on April 02, 2017:

Anonymous - Yep, already have some that fit that clarification. Try out the "I'yard Hither For You lot Playlist: 65 Songs About Supporting Someone and Being There": https://spinditty.com/playlists/Songs-About-Suppor... . Or, you might try: "74 Songs About Marriage and Long Term Love Relationships" at https://spinditty.com/playlists/Honey-Through-the-Y... . Thanks for commenting!

Anonymous on April 02, 2017:

Tin we have a list of songs about very healthy relationships to contrast this list?

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on February 01, 2017:

Frances - Oh, a loving and practical homo who tin cook. He is a definite keeper!

Frances Metcalfe on January 31, 2017:

Wow! What a keen article. I love youe way - witty and entertaining. I especially wa amused by your other half'southward clarification of what a toxic relationship is. I'm in a loving ( and practical!) relationship and feel very fortunate. He cooks too - how skillful is that?

FlourishAnyway (author) from Usa on January 22, 2017:

Martie - Cheers for reading. I'm glad you enjoyed it and recall you're right about appreciating what you can. Take a great week.

Martie Coetser from Due south Africa on January 22, 2017:

Flourish, I dearest the data you give almost each and every song. I can just imagine how much energy and encephalon power you lot put into these very handy playlists of yours. Thanks a lot!

FlourishAnyway (writer) from Usa on January 18, 2017:

Linda - Good for you that you cull healthy relationships. More people should follow your lead. I appreciate your stopping by and wish you a wonderful residuum of your calendar week.

Linda Crampton from British Columbia, Canada on January 18, 2017:

I beloved the opening photo in this article. It'due south very appropriate! I'g lucky that I've never been in a toxic human relationship. Information technology was certainly interesting to read about this unfortunate state of affairs, though.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on Jan 18, 2017:

Genna - May he eat his heart out. From prison or wherever he is.

Genna East from Massachusetts, USA on January eighteen, 2017:

Amen! But I remember one of them when I was however a teenager. And in one case was definitely enough. :-)

FlourishAnyway (writer) from United states on Jan 18, 2017:

Genna - Bad boys that can't hold a job, don't testify upwardly timely and treat y'all right take no entreatment here! I certain don't see it. Cheers for reading. I've added your ii songs. Have a wonderful week ahead.

Genna East from Massachusetts, United states on Jan 18, 2017:

I recall when those handsome, bad boys could exist attractive when we were very young, but thankfully we grew out of that. Didn't we? (Lol.) Yet some other impressive list of songs. The but 1 could think of was "Yous're No Good," by Linda Ronstadt and Carly Simon'due south song, allegedly about Mick Jagger -- I can't think of the name of it -- "You lot're So Vain"?

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on January 17, 2017:

Gypsy Rose - Sign of the times, indeed! Thank you for stopping by! Glad y'all enjoyed it. Accept a bully calendar week!

Gypsy Rose Lee from Daytona Beach, Florida on Jan 16, 2017:

Another very well done hub. WOW I didn't realize there was so much music on toxic relationships. Must exist a sign of the times.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on Jan 16, 2017:

MsDora - I know, right!?! Real dearest shouldn't hurt at all. Thank you for your kind compliment. Accept a lovely week.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on January 16, 2017:

Heidi - Glad you enjoyed this! I've added your vocal suggestion. George Michael sure was the bomb. (RIP George.) I always thought Father Figure was a little messed up, too, from a relationship signal of view, just I LOVED that vocal. Take a bang-up week!

Dora Weithers from The Caribbean area on Jan 16, 2017:

"Hurt and then proficient?" We take to pity those who get so accustomed to being hurt that they acquaintance it with love. I like how you interject the tables and polls in this and other articles to brand the readers terminate and think. Great job!

Heidi Thorne from Chicago Surface area on January sixteen, 2017:

Even though about a not-so-great situation, there are some good tracks on this list!

I'd add together "Everything She Wants" from the belatedly, great George Michael and Wham.

Happy Monday!

FlourishAnyway (author) from Us on January 16, 2017:

Jo - Information technology's a skillful thing y'all don't practice toxic relationships. They do seem to be quite the topic in music though and the lyrics make me glad I don't partake. Cheers for reading anyhow! Crying Creek is a creek between I-40 and Gatlinburg, TN.

Jo Miller from Tennessee on January 16, 2017:

Great lists over again, but, similar others here, I have a difficult time relating. At present I accept to get look upwards Crying Creek, TN. Never heard of it.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on Jan 15, 2017:

Linda - Yes, my reliable and conscientious husband doesn't do "toxic" either. We've been married over 25 years, and hope to ane day be where you are. Congratulations on such a long and successful spousal relationship!

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on January xv, 2017:

Kryiaki - Having no experience with toxic relationships is a good thing! Count yourself lucky! Some of the popular music seems to indication toxic relationships are nearly the norm these days, but counterbalanced and healthy relationships are much more fun in the long run. Take a wonderful week!

FlourishAnyway (writer) from USA on January fifteen, 2017:

Suhail - Simply thought of one from that era and added it in your honor every bit #41, Bon Jovi, "You Give Love a Bad Name." Any others? Thanks for reading.

Linda Lum from Washington State, The states on Jan 15, 2017:

Flourish - Information technology was hard for me to go into this 1 considering a "toxic relationship" could not exist whatsoever farther from where I am. Thankfully, I have been blest by beingness with a man who loves me (warts and all) and has for four decades. Only, needless to say, you lot've got a good list here.

Kyriaki Chatzi on Jan xv, 2017:

Being a textbook millennial, I tin can honestly say that know just a song or two from this list. Luckily, I am besides clueless when it comes to toxic relationships. Even and so, I enjoyed reading your list and listening to new tunes. Thank you for sharing, FlourishAnyway. Y'all never disappoint!

Suhail Zubaid aka Clark Kent from Mississauga, ON on January 15, 2017:

FlourishAnyway,

Swell listing and I got to heed to some of them, simply there is none from hard rock / heavy metallic glam of 1980s ha-ha.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on January xv, 2017:

Larry - Glad you lot enjoyed. Have a great weekend. Looking forward to reading more than Larry writing.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on January 15, 2017:

Bill - There are some really good songs on this list. Sometimes hearing almost the bad relationships can make you appreciate a proficient relationship even more! Have a wonderful weekend!

FlourishAnyway (author) from U.s.a. on January 15, 2017:

cheaptrick - Absolutely hilarious, dark little poem. Anyone who has been through a nasty divorce would really appreciate it. (I'll send it my sister'south way!) Thanks for reading and for your clever comment.

Larry Rankin from Oklahoma on January 15, 2017:

Great listing!

Bill The netherlands from Olympia, WA on Jan 15, 2017:

Gosh, I couldn't recollect of a single one. I feel pretty good nearly that. LOL Seriously, not one toxic relationship vocal would come to mind. Even going over your list, I only recognized two of them. Peradventure I'm listening to positive songs and I didn't fifty-fifty know it. :)

cheaptrick from the bridge of sighs on January 14, 2017:

Quite a collection I must say.The dynamic of these relationships has always escaped me.I discover them paradoxical.

As a man devoted to loving women my whole life,I've had my share of 'frustrating' partners likewise.So here'due south a poem by Jeff Ross I hope volition make low-cal of these diametric relationships;Information technology'southward titled

"I miss her sometimes"

I ran into my ex

the other mean solar day

then

I backed up

and ran into her over again

I miss her sometimes.

Residuum assured the eternal flame of romantic love will never be extinguished;On the contrary,it may engulf All our hearts in the end.

Loved your hub,excellent effort.

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